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The Story of the Three Bears

An elderly man with a hat smiling with glasses and a big gap between his teethWhen Daniel was first diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease, him and his family were determined for him to continue to live a normal life.

Indeed, Daniel was high functioning: as a successful and well-known artist and sculptor, he continued to produce successful artwork as well as live and travel happily with his wife and fellow artist, Lisa.

Yet, as Lisa was spending a lot of time working on her own artwork and Daniel had become a bit more forgetful, Lisa thought it would be best to hire a private helper for Daniel; someone who could keep him company while he worked, assist him in his workshop, lift his spirits, and prevent him from being tempted to nap too often, a custom which had led to a dangerous blood clot earlier that year.

Lisa asked Alvita Care to search for a caregiver who was ideally skilled enough to assist Daniel in his work but also experienced with Alzheimer’s disease. Lisa had underestimated how much personality-fit was a crucial component of this hire. “Like the story of the three bears,” says Lisa, it took a few trials with different caregivers before the right match was found for Daniel.

In the first attempt, Daniel’s assigned caregiver was a bit too stringent…Used to dealing with more difficult dementia patients, the caregiver often ordered Daniel around and was very short with him. As Daniel is sweet and not one to make demands, he did not complain about the woman assigned to help him. But Daniel’s family was not comfortable with the way he was being treated and was determined to find a better fit.

The second caregiver assigned to Daniel seemed like a better choice: She was sweet and caring and would never make harsh demands from Daniel as his first caregiver would. However, she was often too soft-spoken and Daniel could rarely understand her. She would often try to motivate Daniel to stay active, but he was hardly convinced by her suggestions.

And then – “Bingo!” — tells Lisa: In the third attempt to find the right caregiver, Daniel finally met his perfect match. As soon as the young and energetic caregiver, Emanee, walked through the door, an immediate connection was felt. Lisa says that the first bonding moment she witnessed was when Emanee met Daniel’s dog and loved playing with him as he reminded her of her own dog. This was one of many interests Emanee and Daniel held in common and the two of them instantly clicked. Pretty soon, Emanee and Daniel were laughing and making jokes together, listening to Oldies music, and discussing many of Daniel’s incredible life experiences.

During their time together, Daniel and Emanee have developed more of a friendship than a typical caregiver-client relationship. Emanee successfully encourages Sam to get out of the house often and stay active with walks and trips to the gym. Emanee has grown fascinated by the work that goes on in Daniel’s studio and even accompanies Daniel and Lisa to art events and exhibitions.

Lisa was very relieved to have found the right caregiver for Daniel. To top off the success, Lisa tells Alvita Care that Emanee has won the ultimate prize: “Daniel remembers her name!”

 

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Alvita Care is a fully licensed home healthcare company providing premier in home caregiver services to seniors living in New York City and on Long Island NY. With offices in Midtown Manhattan and Hauppauge NY, Alvita Care was founded in 2008 upon the idea of "Care Without Compromise". Our care-giving services enhance seniors' lives, by improving their well-being, dignity and independence. We have earned The Joint Commissions Gold Seal of Approval and pride ourselves with our proprietary caregiver matching process that carefully matches our experience caregivers to each client based on personality and technical skills needed. Alvita Care can help whether you need assistance for several hours a few times a week or you require live-in or around-the-clock assistance. Our caregivers provide assurance and relief to families by relieving their anxiety, knowing that their loved one is safe, happy and lovingly cared for.