4 Tips on How to Choose a Caregiver

Smiling pleased senior man playing pianoWhen beginning to learn about in-home care services in the Greater New York City area, many people ask me how to choose a caregiver. I have lots of thoughts on how to best choose a caregiver, so I hope you have plenty of time! Just kidding – I am sure you are just as busy and your life just as hectic as mine – so I will be short and to the point and share with you what I have found to be the most important tips as you consider a provider of in-home care services.

It may surprise you that much of what I focus on here is the soft intangibles of personality. I can’t say enough how important these are! I hope that you will trust my experience as I have worked with many families across a wide variety of cultural, religious, and socio-economic lines to place great caregivers. Here are four helpful pointers that are important in all cases when choosing a caregiver for yourself or your loved one:

How to Choose A Caregiver #1: Technical Skills

Not surprisingly, in-home care services skills are an important factor in choosing a caregiver. But you might be surprised that technical skills only account for one of the four areas I’ll focus on today. After all, it’s a “yes” or “no” answer. Does the candidate caregiver possess the necessary skills for your unique situation?
One thing I’ve learned as the owner of a home care agency is that no two clients are alike and each has different needs. What specific skills do you require? Can the caregiver change an occupied bed? Does the caregiver have training and experience operating a Hoyer lift or transferring a client from bed to wheelchair? Does the caregiver understand personal hygiene? Home care agencies can be very helpful in screening candidates and assessing such skills.

Under no circumstance would I recommend forgoing formal training; at Alvita Care, we hire caregivers with a minimum of home health aide certification. Although hands-on experience is important, formal academic training provides a critical foundation for success.

How to Choose A Caregiver #2: Self-awareness

I can’t stress how important it is to know (and accept) the personality that works best for your loved one and any family members that will be involved when you choose a caregiver. Is your loved one talkative? Shy? Likes to laugh? Do they like things a certain way (regardless if it makes sense to you whether or not that lamp shade needs to be at the exact angle that they want)? Do they like to read or go for walks?

Whatever their traits are – good and bad – be aware of them and try to find a caregiver that will complement these. If mom is a neat freak, then find a caregiver that is just as particular and it will be a match made in heaven!

How to Choose A Caregiver #3: Put in the Time (and you thought dating was hard…)

If you are looking to hire a caregiver privately, be prepared to devote a lot of time in the beginning for the process to be successful. Finding the right caregiver can be a daunting task, and you will most likely need to interview a lot of candidates to identify one that you want to try out. Working with an agency can greatly reduce the time needed to identify quality caregivers because an agency should have a team of diverse employees to match each client’s unique requirements.

This might help give you an idea of the time commitment that is potentially necessary to find a good match – at Alvita Care we hire about 10-20% of all applicants that we interview (and a much lower percentage of all that apply). It’s a numbers game you have to interview and screen a lot of candidates to find the best!

How to Choose A Caregiver #4: Trust Your Gut

They say that first impressions matter – you make a decision on someone in five seconds. Well that holds just as true when choosing a caregiver. If your loved one isn’t getting along with the caregiver you’ve selected, or if your gut says “no,” then trust that instinct. In the long run, forcing a relationship isn’t going to work and will make everyone – both loved one and caregiver – resentful and miserable. Pull the ripcord quickly at the beginning until you find that perfect match. It will be more work now, but will pay dividends in the long run!
Choosing a caregiver to provide you or your loved one with in-home care services can be a very daunting task. At Alvita Care we strive to match each of our clients with the best caregiver (or caregivers), based on both needs and personality.

Home Health Care Aides in NYC, Long Island, Westchester, and Northern NJ

Our caregivers are available to assist with personal care, household services, respite, and/or companion care while bringing exceptional compassion, skills, and knowledge about Alzheimer’s and dementia to our clients. We’re known all over the area and provide home health aides in NYC, Westchester, Long Island, and northern New Jersey.

Links to services that our caregivers supplement senior home care with:

Activities of Daily Living
– Elderly Incontinence
Household Services
– Organizing Tips for Homes with Elderly Parents
– Safety for Elderly Parents at Home
Respite & Relief Care
– How to Show your Caregiver that You Care
Companion Care
– Finding the Fun in Aging

We Have Special Skills for Helping Patients with Alzheimer’s or dementia:

Communicating with Alzheimer’s clients
Preventing wandering
Ensuring healthy and adequate meals
Participating in exercise
Engaging in activities
Monitoring for a safe home environment

We have specially trained nursing skills for Palliative and Hospice Care in New York City

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We have specialized skills in Geriatric Care Management:

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