Throughout your life, your mom was probably a constant source of support and love.
While you may have had your differences more often than not, at the end of the day it was mutually understood that she would love and care for you as long as she could.
Now that mom is getting older, its time to pay back the love and support she gave you, and help her adjust to her progressing age. While it is inevitable that your parents will one day become older, weaker, and in need of assisted living, it may not seem as obvious that you or your siblings should be stepping up to care for them.
While we all have our own lives, families, and careers now that we’ve been away from the nest for so long, it is not merely a formality that we should take care of mom, but a valuable learning experience. Care giving changes your life in more ways than one. Pass the self-fulfilling circle that is caring for your mother because she cared for you, is a whole host of reasons and justifications for why you should consider care giving.
Not only is the aid better for your mother because you are the aid, but the knowledge that you can gain from personally caring for your mom can pay off in the long run. Because today’s senior population is constantly growing, reflecting the population growth from the baby boomer generation, the demand for assisted living companions has skyrocketed allowing for people who might not have necessarily wanted to care give to enter the business due to employment opportunities.
Regardless, it can still be a daunting and challenging task to find a caregiver that can provide the right kind of assistance for your mom. What needs to be considered most is that your mother’s happiness and needs are met in full. While it can be a demanding job at times, helping to assist your mom can be a great way to develop a long term healthy lifestyle that can help her live longer, happier, and fuller.
It is not uncommon for family members to regret not being more involved in the care and aid process of their loved one’s last years. And while there are other influences that will cause a detrimental decrease in your aging mother’s health, the mental health and happiness cannot be ignored at such an advance age in life.
Having family by her side can help to increase your mother’s positive attitude towards life and keep her in a healthy state of mind. Especially if your aging mother is diagnosed with a long-term illness, positive reinforcement from family members and loved ones is a really good way to help encourage her to continue to fight her disease.
In return, your personal relationship with your mother and appreciation for familial ties will grow stronger. In this day and age when it is easy to become caught up in the constant chase for success, family can often be put on the back burner with many other responsibilities that were once important to you. By assuming even partial responsibility for the care your mother receives, you can be reminded of the importance of family.
While this may sound like some cliché Hollywood movie with a happy family ending, there is a grain of truth in all of those stories. Even if you didn’t have the best relationship with your mom, being a compassionate person and paying your last respects are important ways to be able to live your life once your aging parents have passed on.